On the other hand, many of the good looking guys who are shy are stuck alone or with a girl they’re not really attracted to. So the most important thing is to cut out any thoughts that sabotage your confidence or make you inhibited.
If you feel you are somehow “less valuable” than the girl, then you will feel shy and nervous around her. Treat an attractive girl in the same casual, natural way you would treat a guy friend or unattractive girl.I’ve broken it down to three parts: Overcoming inferiority, not being too invested, and becoming assertiveness. And if you do, it will still be far less than around the girl you are attracted to.This post is going to go into more depth than anything else out there. Think about the way you talk to girls who you aren’t really attracted to. Do you talk to them the same way you would talk to a guy friend? This happens when you place so much value on looks that a good looking girl becomes intimidating.Back when I was shy, I remember I kept having to think I had to “hide” the fact I had never had a girlfriend.I thought that if the girl realized from the way I acted that I was romantically or sexually inexperienced, then that meant she would just get up and leave automatically.
What about the guy who’s smart enough to know that nothing really bad can happen, but he still feels that overwhelming anxiety that stops him every time?